Chemistry might spark attraction, but lasting relationships are built on compatibility. Understanding the difference can change who you choose โ and why At the start of almost every relationship, desire takes the lead. Weโre drawn to the spark, the excitement, that funny feeling you get in the pit of your stomach (or elsewhere!), the unmistakeable […]
Often we arenโt emotionally disconnected because we lack depth. We feel unseen because no one ever taught us how to put our inner world into words. If you struggle to express emotions youโre not alone โ and youโre not emotionally deficient. As men, frequently we grow up learning that our value lies in what we […]
Subtle gaslighting, โjokesโ that hurt, constantly walking on eggshells: Relationship red flags often appear quietly โ until your confidence is gone for good An old boyfriend of mine had one red flag phrase he repeated constantly: โIโm only kidding โ it was just a joke! Donโt you have a sense of humour?โ He usually said […]