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‘I keep repeating the same mistakes!’ What you need vs what you want, and why it matters

Chemistry might spark attraction, but lasting relationships are built on compatibility. Understanding the difference can change who you choose — and why At the start of almost every relationship, desire takes the lead. We’re drawn to the spark, the excitement, that funny feeling you get in the pit of your stomach (or elsewhere!), the unmistakeable […]

‘I keep repeating the same mistakes!’ What you need vs what you want, and why it matters
Love life

‘I felt love draining quietly away’: why emotional safety is the missing link between desire and lasting intimacy

A psychotherapist explains how the nervous system shapes trust and connection – and why emotional safety is key to maintaining intimacy One of my friends recently shocked our WhatsApp group with the news that she was getting a divorce. They’d been married 20 years, two lovely kids, nice house. It all looked perfect in the […]

‘I felt love draining quietly away’: why emotional safety is the missing link between desire and lasting intimacy
Love life / Family & parenting

Learning this saved my relationship — but most couples never try it

Curiosity is one of the strongest predictors of emotional connection — yet in many long-term relationships it’s often the first thing to disappear Here, relationship expert Karen Thom explores why often it’s what you don’t say that quietly dismantles emotional intimacy. All too often, curiosity quietly disappears from long-term relationships — and missed moments, unasked […]

Learning this saved my relationship — but most couples never try it
Self / Love life

‘It was just a joke, don’t you have a sense of humour?’ How to spot relationship red flags

Subtle gaslighting, ‘jokes’ that hurt, constantly walking on eggshells: Relationship red flags often appear quietly — until your confidence is gone for good An old boyfriend of mine had one red flag phrase he repeated constantly: ‘I’m only kidding — it was just a joke! Don’t you have a sense of humour?’ He usually said […]

‘It was just a joke, don’t you have a sense of humour?’ How to spot relationship red flags