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Mental health / Movement

Making waves: Using surfing to unlock flow and help you go deeper, faster

Therapist Josh Dickson believes the ocean can help people access deeper emotional work. His retreats blend surfing, group therapy and EMDR to harness the science of “flow states” — the immersive mental zone where self-consciousness fades and healing conversations can begin. Josh Dickson noticed it accidentally. A keen boarder himself, he spotted that people came […]

Making waves: Using surfing to unlock flow and help you go deeper, faster
Mental health

Is there such a thing as Summer SAD? Why sunshine makes some people feel worse, not better

Summer is ‘supposed’ to make us feel happier. But for some of us, longer days, heatwaves, social pressure and disrupted sleep can trigger anxiety, irritability and low mood. Experts say summer-pattern Seasonal Affective Disorder is more common than many realise — and often misunderstood. While Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD) is most often associated with winter, […]

Is there such a thing as Summer SAD? Why sunshine makes some people feel worse, not better
Love life

Is there such a thing as love at first sight? Chemistry or compatibility: why both matter more than you think

A spark can ignite a relationship, and shared interests can sustain it — but neither alone defines true compatibility. Scenario one: you meet someone and feel that spark. The attraction is immediate, the chemistry undeniable. Scenario two: you meet someone and discover you have a great deal in common — shared values, interests, and mutual […]

Is there such a thing as love at first sight? Chemistry or compatibility: why both matter more than you think
Friendships / Mental health

Yes, I’ve read your message. No, I haven’t responded. ADHD, communication, and rejection

ADHD and texting don’t mix well. Missed replies and the dread of those blue ticks can trigger a spiral, especially when rejection sensitivity kicks in. Here’s why communication feels so overwhelming with ADHD — and how to manage it without the guilt. Those two little blue ticks. You see them and instantly ask yourself: “They’ve […]

Yes, I’ve read your message. No, I haven’t responded. ADHD, communication, and rejection
Self / Love life

‘It was just a joke, don’t you have a sense of humour?’ How to spot relationship red flags

Subtle gaslighting, ‘jokes’ that hurt, constantly walking on eggshells: Relationship red flags often appear quietly — until your confidence is gone for good An old boyfriend of mine had one red flag phrase he repeated constantly: ‘I’m only kidding — it was just a joke! Don’t you have a sense of humour?’ He usually said […]

‘It was just a joke, don’t you have a sense of humour?’ How to spot relationship red flags