Making it so: Shakespeare, Star Trek and Saying The Thing – in honour of Sir Patrick Stewart

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The only words I said to him were ‘Thank you’. But they were the right words.
I’ve never been much of an autograph hunter. Socially and professionally I love meeting artists I’ve admired, but if it’s not as a colleague or collaborator, not in the spirit of creating something, perhaps it’s my ego that resists. There are exceptions though, and what I mainly remember from the Waiting For Godot stage door is how he looked back at me, how I felt him recognising how much was behind those two words, and how he looked at me as he said them back. I felt him knowing what they contained. Why wouldn’t he? They’re not just mine.
Since last night’s announcement of the death of Sir Patrick Stewart, the tributes have been as varied as they are consistent. Among all I’ve read and watched so far this from his friend and co-star Sir Ian McKellan:
“Before everything else, Patrick was defined by being born and bred in Yorkshire… you could hear it in his accented voice and in the stern honesty with which he told you what he thought and felt. Yorkshiremen have no truck with half-truths or avoidance of big issues. He wore his heart on his sleeve, which made him a man to admire and, in my case, love.”
Perhaps this one reaches deepest because, for so long, those central virtues I admired in him I hadn’t learnt to admire in myself.
I took as naivety and intolerance or lack of resilience my wish to speak what I felt in order to solve problems through understanding and acknowledging them.
Luckily, I had Shakespeare and Star Trek.
As did he. Patrick Stewart talked about how growing up in a home environment with a physically violent father was part of feeling safe onstage, finding your power in communicating humanity’s deepest truths to the best of your abilities. Whatever the art in which we find our power, the good we do there is what allows us to do even more good offstage. Shakespeare and Star Trek give us words and faces for human potential; remind us however far we travel physically is only as meaningful as how far we’re prepared to travel inward.
Five years ago I presented a mini-series for Starburst called The E.I. of Sci-fi and my first stop was Star Trek: Insurrection. The film, like 2020 itself on which the episode reflected, confronted us with our relationship with time: how and why to resist only counting only what has gone; how we do the most good when we believe the time we have ahead of us is as real and meaningful as the time that’s behind us. Normally I call this ‘Say The Thing’, but perhaps I felt it first when I heard ‘Make it so’:
From Sir Patrick Stewart’s instagram:
‘In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to Johns Hopkins Alzheimer’s Disease Research Center Fund and Alzheimer’s Foundation of America Caregiver Resources:
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Dr Rachel Knightley PCC
Author, Writing, Speaking and Confidence Coach
I’m an author, creative writing lecturer, professionally certified business and personal coach (PCC) and founder of The Writers’ Gym membership and podcast. There is nothing I love more (apart from writing) than supporting others to enhance, develop and celebrate their voice — whether that’s on the page or out loud, in life, work or art. My lifelong love of communication and performance began with acting and directing in theatres, schools, workplaces, charities and universities. It formed my fascination with perception and reality (leading to my PhD and to my PGCerts in Business and Personal Coaching with Barefoot and Teaching Creative Writing with Cambridge): how do the roles we play inform our identity? How much can our self-belief inhibit, or enhance, how we bring that self to our life, work and art? I bring all my knowledge and love of writing and speaking – and of how worthwhile the journey into creative confidence is for work and life – to every client relationship whether we’re together for a workshop, a course or a coaching session or programme.
