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Psychoanalysis suggests there is a dark side to our desire to take care of each other. Our subconscious communicates what we really feel and our partner may get sick of being emotionally blackmailed. Becoming more independent and giving our loved ones time and space, can actually be the best way to show affection.

Here are four tips to help you balance your attentions:

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