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  • lisa
    11/08/2008 5:44 pm | Subject: Relationship difficulty

    I have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 years and he has reached the end of his studies, I want to know if he is intending on moving from london to the coast to be with me and my son from a previous relationship. Every time I ask there is always a reason for him not to move, and he says I should be more understanding of his concerns, any advice would be great.

  • HX1
    13/08/2008 9:28 pm | Subject:

    Has he said that he is considering moving, or is that what you expected to happen? Sometimes its easy in relationships to think that you both want the same thing, without you even talking about it. There's a lot to think about ---- what will happen if he does move? Children can be a big responsibility (especially if they're not yours). What will happen if he does move (does it necessarily mean the end to the relationship?)? Do you both have the same expectations for the future of your relationship? In your situation I would want to know if he was making excuses about moving in order to spare my feelings, or if there were valid reasons for not moving or for hesitating. Have an honest conversation about the situation.

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